The Dink Network

I killed the armor guy, and his wife committed suicide, to get a stupid anvil. Really unacceptable. Please, somebody tell me where Bowman's partner's grave is?

come on, nobody has any idea?

For the love of all that is dink in this world, please, somebody, answer~~

Oh, There's three, you have to dig them all up, there's crosses on them.

but what about the anvil though? all the walkthrough says is it's in the grave. Not which one?

Ok I found the anvil, but I reeeeeeeeeally need the amulet.

Kind of related: getting the anvil from the bowman's partner's grave was quite easy (think 'forest' in a place of low rainfall)...but getting the anvil from the armorer seems impossible. I've tried using the mud, and slashing at him with the sword gets 2 lines. He just won't die.

Edit: ahhh only ONE anvil is needed I think.